I wanted to write an ode to her! But she herself is an ode in my life. Someone who brings me alive anytime I meet her and be with her! Too centi? I know, but I am kinda missing her too much today.. I am talking about none other than my little sister, a part of me, someone so like me.. yet so different! Not little literally..
Though she is 5 years younger to me, it feels like I have grown up with her, (yes I have) chaddy-buddy types! The frequency and wavelength that we share is just beyond expression. We can be quiet, just silence between us and still be together and feel good and satisfied. We can also be “monsters”, (someone rightly said that) with each other.. I feel protective about her and want to pamper her and give her the best of everything I can.. But she is just the person I turn to when I need someone to talk to..
We enjoy shopping together, though our choices don’t match. We just like to stick around, even if it means doing nothing but sleep..
I fondly remember all those fun days with her when
Ahh!.. those days, those days of fun, masti, innocence and love.. We still do all of this with each other, nothing has stopped us till now.. Our parents have given up on us and I believe sort of enjoy when we are like this..
Being with her is always like there is no need for anyone else.. We two are enough for both of us.. There has never been a time when we both have not loved each other.. The cat-and-dog relationship that we share has brought us so close, its hard to imagine without her and live without her as well. I have been away from home, past 6 years, and I have missed her the most, most of anyone else..
She has guided me through things and not let me fall apart.. She made sure, I smile always.. loves me unconditionally and bosses over me! I love every bit of what she is and what makes us click!
Surely, she would have and may still miss me more than whatever I can think of.. When I left, I took memories with me, but had left her to stay with those memories.. She would have sure felt a void after I left..
Someone had told me, there is always special bonding between sisters, more than sis-bro and bro-bro relationships.. That’s so true in my case, I have never experienced a bonding like this in any of my other relations.. Being from the same background and having the same parents obviously helps what we share, but what we share is more than anything family can bring. Along with our ages, the innocence and the love that binds us together has also grown.. We both are more matured now, but enjoy the same childish fun and togetherness..
Though she is 5 years younger to me, it feels like I have grown up with her, (yes I have) chaddy-buddy types! The frequency and wavelength that we share is just beyond expression. We can be quiet, just silence between us and still be together and feel good and satisfied. We can also be “monsters”, (someone rightly said that) with each other.. I feel protective about her and want to pamper her and give her the best of everything I can.. But she is just the person I turn to when I need someone to talk to..
We enjoy shopping together, though our choices don’t match. We just like to stick around, even if it means doing nothing but sleep..
I fondly remember all those fun days with her when
- We used to hit and bite each other
- Fall over each other,
- Lock her inside the bathroom and not let her inside the bathroom and she will be banging the door each time
- She putting me down on my bum after trying to lift me
- Hitting me, pulling my hair out
- Me choking her
- Exchange clothes, help each other dress up
- Have a quiet chai time together
- Roam about on the roads
- Fight and push each other on the road, get embarrassed when someone saw us
- Window shopping
- Cuddling beside her to sleep
- Wake her up by sitting on her, she waking me up by throwing water on my face
- Fighting for the TVremote
- Fighting to make each other go when mom-dad give a task
- Sometimes serious fights – not talking at all.. Let’s see who talks first types.. I was always more adamant and she loves me her heart out..
- Always taking a bite from her plate even if I have eaten the same thing..
- Drink a bigger portion from her chai, even after having my cup full.. And she gobbling up the food, even I ask her to share and then grin
- Making fun of our parents
- Enjoy secret jokes and talking gossip..
Ahh!.. those days, those days of fun, masti, innocence and love.. We still do all of this with each other, nothing has stopped us till now.. Our parents have given up on us and I believe sort of enjoy when we are like this..
Being with her is always like there is no need for anyone else.. We two are enough for both of us.. There has never been a time when we both have not loved each other.. The cat-and-dog relationship that we share has brought us so close, its hard to imagine without her and live without her as well. I have been away from home, past 6 years, and I have missed her the most, most of anyone else..
She has guided me through things and not let me fall apart.. She made sure, I smile always.. loves me unconditionally and bosses over me! I love every bit of what she is and what makes us click!
Surely, she would have and may still miss me more than whatever I can think of.. When I left, I took memories with me, but had left her to stay with those memories.. She would have sure felt a void after I left..
Someone had told me, there is always special bonding between sisters, more than sis-bro and bro-bro relationships.. That’s so true in my case, I have never experienced a bonding like this in any of my other relations.. Being from the same background and having the same parents obviously helps what we share, but what we share is more than anything family can bring. Along with our ages, the innocence and the love that binds us together has also grown.. We both are more matured now, but enjoy the same childish fun and togetherness..